[TheRealThing]

I will repeat what I said in my first paragraph above, The "concept" of moving on is reserved for those who have had no devastating close losses of loved ones or those who, in truth, had no deep love for the one who was lost.

I have found that "moving on", like "time heals all wounds", are both obscenely insulting.

No question. Time may heal all wounds for the superficial among us but, never for those who lose family and who truly and sacrificially love them. You go on, though always in pain, because that is what God expects. I am always struck by the profound yet simple words of an old hymn:

"There are loved ones in the glory. Whose dear forms you often miss. When you close your earthly story, Will you join them in their bliss?

Will the circle be unbroken, By and by Lord , by and by? Is a better home awaiting, In the sky Lord, in the sky?"