[Stardust]

You tell me. These "American farmers" (which probably have illegal immigrants working them) said they would take it simply because it's offered. If the restaurant you go to eat at offers you a free dessert, would you turn it down? Probably not, because it would atleast provide a little bit of value to you.

The difference is that if I sat on the right, I would be appreciative and let it be known that it was not expected nor a requirement of my frequent of your establishment.

If I sat on the left, I'd expect that just because I ate in your restaraunt, you "Owe" me that free desert and I will accept nothing less than you take care of my wants.