[TheRealVille]

Try Rhode Island. It allows civil unions, but has no ban on same sex marriage.

Have you had any luck finding a single example of states that do not allow gay marriage but have failed to legally define marriage as being between one man and one woman of the "many" that you claimed exist? Or is this yet another example where you made a statement that cannot be supported by facts and simply decided to drop the point without admitting that you were mistaken? All I asked for was one example. A modest and reasonable request, IMO.