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08-04-2015, 03:35 AM
I have zero experience dealing with this type of situation, but I'll certainly throw out what I would do if it happened to me just in case something gets out that could be of help.
Her going to prison was a blessing in disguise and maybe the best thing that could have happened to begin the healing process. A couple of people I grew up with had an addiction and went through a "waking up" experience in prison. They were very fortunate to only have to serve a few weeks, and then to only have to go to rehab for a few months after the crime they committed. They were put on probation shortly after that, and they seem to be doing well at this point.
Now is the best time to reach out to her. She's sober, she's going to be more aware once the effects from the drugs wear off. I'm sure she's an outstanding person when off the drugs and probably doesn't even realize she is lying and stealing - that will change now that the drugs have worn off and hopefully she will come to the realization of what she has done. One site I looked at mentioned not to make any emotional appeals to her, saying it's something she will have to come to on her own and that the emotional appeal could sometimes lead her back to the drugs she once struggled with.
Remember that this is a slow process. We live in a society where people expect quick turnarounds. Frustrations often arise in these types of scenarios. Be patient and keep positive - remember that as frustrating as it is, this could be the best scenario for her.
Finaly, Do-double-gg, it hurts me that I don't know enough to provide you good advice...but I did find a link to the Family Drug Helpline. This is a 24/7 hotline that is designed for families and friends of those who are misusing drugs or alcohol. This is a confidential hotline which is staffed with trained volunteers from Monday to Friday 9-5, and has professional counselors during the times afterward. You are always welcome to shoot me a PM, I will go above and beyond to do my very best to help you...but this hotline might have a few people that have been around that situation and know more about what to do. Even with that, you are always welcome to shoot me a PM.
1300 660 068 (I found it odd the last group didn't have four digits...but it's legit)
http://sharc.org.au/program/family-drug-...-helpline/
Her going to prison was a blessing in disguise and maybe the best thing that could have happened to begin the healing process. A couple of people I grew up with had an addiction and went through a "waking up" experience in prison. They were very fortunate to only have to serve a few weeks, and then to only have to go to rehab for a few months after the crime they committed. They were put on probation shortly after that, and they seem to be doing well at this point.
Now is the best time to reach out to her. She's sober, she's going to be more aware once the effects from the drugs wear off. I'm sure she's an outstanding person when off the drugs and probably doesn't even realize she is lying and stealing - that will change now that the drugs have worn off and hopefully she will come to the realization of what she has done. One site I looked at mentioned not to make any emotional appeals to her, saying it's something she will have to come to on her own and that the emotional appeal could sometimes lead her back to the drugs she once struggled with.
Remember that this is a slow process. We live in a society where people expect quick turnarounds. Frustrations often arise in these types of scenarios. Be patient and keep positive - remember that as frustrating as it is, this could be the best scenario for her.
Finaly, Do-double-gg, it hurts me that I don't know enough to provide you good advice...but I did find a link to the Family Drug Helpline. This is a 24/7 hotline that is designed for families and friends of those who are misusing drugs or alcohol. This is a confidential hotline which is staffed with trained volunteers from Monday to Friday 9-5, and has professional counselors during the times afterward. You are always welcome to shoot me a PM, I will go above and beyond to do my very best to help you...but this hotline might have a few people that have been around that situation and know more about what to do. Even with that, you are always welcome to shoot me a PM.
1300 660 068 (I found it odd the last group didn't have four digits...but it's legit)
http://sharc.org.au/program/family-drug-...-helpline/
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Some things I want to get off my chest!!! - by Do-double-gg - 08-01-2015, 01:53 AM
Some things I want to get off my chest!!! - by Do-double-gg - 08-01-2015, 01:56 AM
Some things I want to get off my chest!!! - by Jarons - 08-01-2015, 02:38 AM
Some things I want to get off my chest!!! - by Spirit100 - 08-01-2015, 08:10 PM
Some things I want to get off my chest!!! - by Westside - 08-01-2015, 10:05 PM
Some things I want to get off my chest!!! - by Do-double-gg - 08-02-2015, 02:08 AM
Some things I want to get off my chest!!! - by sstack - 08-03-2015, 04:14 PM
Some things I want to get off my chest!!! - by Spirit100 - 08-03-2015, 07:07 PM
Some things I want to get off my chest!!! - by WideRight05 - 08-04-2015, 03:35 AM
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