[BFritz]

[quote author=corndog23 link=topic=20347.msg206312#msg206312 date=1141711798]
i truly hate that you are in your situation, but i dont know what its like and cant tell you what to do about it or anything. You do what is best for BFritz and thats all i can really say about it.
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I'd never expect anyone to even have the slightest idea of what it's like to be in my situation, I wish I didn't have to, but I do, and I accept it and try to make the best of life because I do still have a life to live.  I appreciate that you acknowledge that you don't know what it's like to be me and that you don't pretend to have all of the answers.  On the same note, I'll never pretend like I know what you, or anyone, has been through or is going through.  I guess where I'm caught is that there are standards and an expected way for normal people to act/think, but, there is no standard for me and nobody knows how they'd act because nobody else has been through the same things that I have and no one else is in the same physical/mental condition that I'm in.  Nobody knows what anyone else is going through or anything, but a lot of people MIGHT be able to help and MIGHT have an idea of how that person is feeling. 

This post is in NO WAY saying that a "normal person's" problems are any less difficult than mine, because I know lots of people have problems that I probly wouldn't be able to handle, and I don't expect anyone to know what it's like to be me, which is another thing that frustrates me- when people do assume that they know what it's like to be me