[GoldenSpirit]

While I'm the first to jump down a Ref's throat, I'm a little perplexed here. First of all, you are not supposed to throw the ball to the ref, you should leave it where it lies or hand it to the ref. Also, you're not allowed to point/taunt/anything like that as its considered unsportsman like conduct. That should have been taught by the teams coach. It's not the Ref's job to instill decent sportsmanship in the players, no explanation needed. Two unsportsman like conduct/personal fouls = Ejection.

So you say by tossing an underhand throw back to the ref is a bad thing. I see it every game every week done by pee-wee, youth, middle,high school and college. So you must be extremely tough on your kids. 2nd, just pointing forward is also bad. Not stepping, or screaming or anything like that. Just pointing forward is worth a ejection. What if the flex their muscles. Or yell out. Is that all the same. And do it in less than 2 min of a game. REMARKABLE