[NEWARKCATHOLICFAN]

This topic comes out of a situation someone I use to know was in.
If your parents both sexually and mentally abused you and most of your brother and sisters and you turned them only to have your brothers and sisters say you were lying.
Could you forgive any or all of them? The brother and sisters all except for the two who were not abused ridiculed you and called you a liar and always stuck with the parents and they all left their children along with the parents.

The parents were found guilty but for only one day and against only one child.

If you forgave your parents would you leave your elementary age children alone with them?

The child who turned them in forgave the brothers and sisters and then later forgave the parents and she too left the kids alone with the rapist, a lot.

[15thRegionSlamaBamma]

no and no and ABSOLUTLEY NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[phs1986]

No way, not ever! That is one thing that I would never forgive for especially against my children. My babies are everything to me. If someone would ever harm a hair on their heads... LITERALLY, I don't think I could ever forgive. I feel that the good lord above chose me to raise these 2 young men that I have and I will do it to the best of my ability AND protect them with my own life. The situtation you listed in your thread topic though is all too common! Believe it or not, it happens everyday, somewhere or to someone that we probably know or know of! Bless this young woman for forgiving but leaving her own kids with them...... NOPE.... wrong answer!!!

[NEWARKCATHOLICFAN]

No way, not ever! That is one thing that I would never forgive for especially against my children. My babies are everything to me. If someone would ever harm a hair on their heads... LITERALLY, I don't think I could ever forgive. I feel that the good lord above chose me to raise these 2 young men that I have and I will do it to the best of my ability AND protect them with my own life. The situtation you listed in your thread topic though is all too common! Believe it or not, it happens everyday, somewhere or to someone that we probably know or know of! Bless this young woman for forgiving but leaving her own kids with them...... NOPE.... wrong answer!!!

The female in all of this turned out to mistreat her own kids(the son hates her)the daughter on the other hand believes everything the mom says. The female in this turned into a working lady(if you know what I mean)and is a borderline drunk and a chain smoker. How much of this comes from her back ground is unknown. If, you could hear the son talk about the horror he and his sister went through(nothing sexual) happened to the son but the sister was made to have adult relations with a man who was the moms landlord and she and the landlord had pics of this on the internet. Now the daughter still thinks her mom is as close as perfect gets. My sister has a friend who is a cop in the county and that how we all found out about the pics.

[phs1986]

The female in all of this turned out to mistreat her own kids(the son hates her)the daughter on the other hand believes everything the mom says. The female in this turned into a working lady(if you know what I mean)and is a borderline drunk and a chain smoker. How much of this comes from her back ground is unknown. If, you could hear the son talk about the horror he and his sister went through(nothing sexual) happened to the son but the sister was made to have adult relations with a man who was the moms landlord and she and the landlord had pics of this on the internet. Now the daughter still thinks her mom is as close as perfect gets. My sister has a friend who is a cop in the county and that how we all found out about the pics.

UNBELIVEABLE!!! WHY does CPS let this type of thing go on? You do hear of many abused turning into the abuser..... I do hope the children are or have gotten counseling.

[NEWARKCATHOLICFAN]

UNBELIVEABLE!!! WHY does CPS let this type of thing go on? You do hear of many abused turning into the abuser..... I do hope the children are or have gotten counseling.

The son turned the so-called mom in s many times he said it was funny and when Children Services investigate her (even when the school called them) they always found her to be fit. The son told a judge at a hearing his so-called mom had him in over 22 different schools and in one week he was in three schools in two different states. The judge said to him at least she has you in school. The son went on to tell the judge that she did not work and spent most of her time at a bar or picking up guys at a truck stop. He even told the judge that he saw men come to the house and give the mom money afte rthey had adult fun. The judge ask the son did you see them having adult fun? the boy said no, but I heard it and the judge said how can you be so sure you knew what you heard?

Ohio, especially in Licking County and the surrounding counties are horrible when it comes to helping the kids.

The daughter is still as tight as a person can be with the mom
while the son will not talkor see her.

[Spud6]

No Way!!!

[Stardust]

Very. Have had a lot of instances where I thought that I would never, but in the end, my Christian values win out.

[phs1986]

The son turned the so-called mom in s many times he said it was funny and when Children Services investigate her (even when the school called them) they always found her to be fit. The son told a judge at a hearing his so-called mom had him in over 22 different schools and in one week he was in three schools in two different states. The judge said to him at least she has you in school. The son went on to tell the judge that she did not work and spent most of her time at a bar or picking up guys at a truck stop. He even told the judge that he saw men come to the house and give the mom money afte rthey had adult fun. The judge ask the son did you see them having adult fun? the boy said no, but I heard it and the judge said how can you be so sure you knew what you heard?

Ohio, especially in Licking County and the surrounding counties are horrible when it comes to helping the kids.

The daughter is still as tight as a person can be with the mom
while the son will not talkor see her.

That is one VERY smart young man!!! God bless him! Its sad when our justice system protects the "situtations" that adults put their children in. NOT all adults but those who can work the system and know just how much they can do and get by with. I have heard of them even saying, "at least they have a roof over their heads and they eat at school".... WHAT about the clothes, love, food during the summers, I could go on and on with things that children need to become well rounded adults.

[NEWARKCATHOLICFAN]

That is one VERY smart young man!!! God bless him! Its sad when our justice system protects the "situtations" that adults put their children in. NOT all adults but those who can work the system and know just how much they can do and get by with. I have heard of them even saying, "at least they have a roof over their heads and they eat at school".... WHAT about the clothes, love, food during the summers, I could go on and on with things that children need to become well rounded adults.

The son said it was weird going the moms parents place knowing they both had adult relations with her he said the worse part was being left alone there.

[phs1986]

The son said it was weird going the moms parents place knowing they both had adult relations with her he said the worse part was being left alone there.

I couldn't even imagine! Does the young man live at home still or is he old enough that he is on his own now?

[NEWARKCATHOLICFAN]

He is an adult now lives with his lady and their child.

[phs1986]

He is an adult now lives with his lady and their child.

Glad to hear that he has someone in his life and a child.

To some parents there is no greater love than the love of a child. (Next, to the love of the lord that is)....

[NEWARKCATHOLICFAN]

So true.